How to know yourself
Do you know yourself?
What question is this?
Do I know my self?
Of course I do.
Have you ever thought you have double characters, just pretending being someone else, pretending be other than you because you ashame of you? Have you ever try to be an actor an actress or a singer because you hate yourself and find him/her more important?
Have you ever tried a self – discovery journey to find your real self? The person you were born to be? How well do you know yourself? Do you love yourself? Are you proud of being what exacly you are? Or you always dream to be someone else someone better than you?
How easy it is to find out yourself?
When we are young at the age of 13-17 we are growing up with artist stars we want to be like them to have their glory, to be sccessful in our lives, we want to be like our lovely artists, I feel important only if I am like this succesful singer, I am so unimportant. Most of youngs acting in their every day life like their favorite actors, they obtain their behaviour, their thoughts, they live with the standard they were infuenced by media, television , internet.
The journey to find yourself is long and it is impossible to start at the age of 15. As we grow up, we realise that nothing is as we believed earlier in our youth. Everything is completely different. We are not actors, or singers, we come in our reality and we realise that we are not as perfect as they were, he/she will not love me because he admires that idol.
We look around us and we see people around us and we admire them, we want to be like them. We are not able to look deepest inside us to see ourselves. What you mean to see ourselves? This is exacly what I mean, to look inside ourselves. Is it possible? The first human you should take a look is yourself, it is the first person you see, This self – journey investigating your inner self comes in need only if you search for it, otherwise you will never meet YOU. We look the others and never look ourselves, we look what others can do and we jealous and we do not nurture our selves to become the best we can do from our nature. We are born to become whatever we meant to be, and nothing can change that. This is the truth.
How many times did you have a snapshot of youself and you find out that is not you, you are so hypocrit, so awful. Many times I suppose, it happens to me also. There are times you have a snapsot of your profile and everything is fantastic you are awsome! Why this happens? If you notice yourself while capturing videos or snapsots, you will see that some factors play a big role to a grate video or phorography, is the psycology. When we are real happy we are awesome in our photos, when we pretend to be huppy or beautiful we capturing our ungliest moments of our expressions.
All the people are not the same, everyone has his own personality, hiw own character, his own individuality, and uniqueness. This uniqness we have s the most important part in our lifes. Imagine all the world to have the same appearance or the same personality the world would'nt be so beautiful. Life is beautiful because we are different, because we are what we are, what we were born to be, and this is our role in life.
What means to get to know my self? There are many old people that they do not know their selves. What this is suppose to mean? This means that self- awareness is not something that happens to all while they grow up. This means that you have to want deep to make this self – journey, and the circumastances of your life gave you this concious will. If you want to know yourself you will make this hard journey and you will discover amazing things about your nner self. But if you do not care of getting to know yourself better then you will never learn, and you probably will die without learning at all. It is your choice, it is the easy and the hard work. If you want to learn yourself you have to know that you have a long journey of a life to discover it, and it is not simply at all. Endoscopy is painful procedure but if you have patience enough in the long term you will find the deepest you, the real you.
Answer to yourself to few questions:
What do you like and what you don't?
What things you can do and what not?
What thinks you can learn and what nou can not?
How is your behavour to each of your everyday conducts and why?
Who are you when you are alone and what you become when being in the real society?
Who are you with a relationship and who you are when you are alone? This very important.
Experiences in life may cause you sad, pleasure, happiness and many other feelings, watch your self how you react o all of these situatons.
Do you have a meter in you behaviour? How you react? How ungry you can become? How much can you drink? How much can you control yourself?
How good and how dirty you can become?
MegaArtvsion © 14-8-2016
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